03.11.2009

HOW TO BECOME A BETTER LOVER – SEXUAL PLEASURE

The myth that, to be normal, a woman must have an orgasm during intercourse has to be destroyed. Although only 40 per cent of women reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, more than 90 per cent can be helped to orgasm by masturbation or by their partner stimulating the clitoral area either with finger or tongue.

Another myth is that women are less easily aroused sexually and take longer to reach orgasm than men. It is true that some women, who have been taught in childhood that sex is something rather shameful, do take longer to reach orgasm than most men, but many women, provided that they are adequately and properly stimulated, can have an orgasm as quickly as a man.

A third myth, which is equally damaging to a woman’s sexual pleasure, is that women are less interested in the enjoyment of sexual intercourse itself, and more interested in the feelings of closeness and affection which sexual intercourse brings. In other words, it is enough for a man to have sexual intercourse and ejaculate; that will satisfy a woman and she does not need to be helped to have an orgasm.

Most women want affection and closeness and they obtain great sexual enjoyment if their partner arouses them, by stimulating their erotic areas gently and seductively; but once a woman has experienced an orgasm, she wants that too.

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